"Không còn mùa thu
Không còn mùa thu, trăng rơi bên thềm
Không còn lời ru, mơ trên môi mềm
Em thơ, như mùa xuân đầu, nối dài đêm sâu
Anh làm mùa thu, cho em mơ màng
Anh làm lời ru, quấn quýt bên nàng
Em đi, tiếc gì thu vàng, tiếc gì xuân sang
Còn thương nhớ nhau, về thắp sao trời
Còn thương nhớ nhau, từng đêm bão tố
Tóc ướt trăng thề, lời yêu chưa nói trên môi vụng về
Đường ta đã qua, chìm khuất chân trời
Đường ta sẽ qua, nào ai biết tới
Chiều buông rã rời, ru lòng thôi mơ, ru buồn lên thơ "
Nightmareriage - When marriage becomes a nightmare, ...
They used to be happy together. Now they are happy but not together. They have their own families: new wife, new husband, and new kids, and they seem alright. Through the ups and downs, they can still be strong and in control of their lives. It's better to break up like them, though getting hurt for a while, than to prison yourself in the vicious circle with no way out. Marriage should be a choice rather than a responsibility; divorce should be a right rather than a sin. Why do people have to stay in marriage when they fail to match like two incompatible pieces of a puzzle? Why do they have to pretend to be happy when they are not? Everyone lives once. Why do we have to live to please others?
Celebrities often complain that they have no freedom: their private lives are disturbed; their secrets leak out. But in fact, famous people may have more freedom than ordinary people. They are free to date, to marry, to divorce, and cause scandals. Though their private lives often make headlines in newspapers, those people are already immune to gossips and rumors. They are free to set new trend, to rebel against the old values, and to do the unprecedented. It's fine for them to be a single parent, to divorce within 24 hour marriage, to date someone new, or to label someone their ex. On the contrary, ordinary people have to follow traditions. At certain age, they must get married. At certain age, they must have children. And once they step into marriage, there's no way they can step out. They are conditioned to take responsibility and follow unannounced rules. They are conditioned to sacrifice their lives to save their face. Knowing they're getting lost, getting stuck in the dead-end road, they make no attempt to reverse their steps.
Không còn lời ru, mơ trên môi mềm
Em thơ, như mùa xuân đầu, nối dài đêm sâu
Anh làm mùa thu, cho em mơ màng
Anh làm lời ru, quấn quýt bên nàng
Em đi, tiếc gì thu vàng, tiếc gì xuân sang
Còn thương nhớ nhau, về thắp sao trời
Còn thương nhớ nhau, từng đêm bão tố
Tóc ướt trăng thề, lời yêu chưa nói trên môi vụng về
Đường ta đã qua, chìm khuất chân trời
Đường ta sẽ qua, nào ai biết tới
Chiều buông rã rời, ru lòng thôi mơ, ru buồn lên thơ "
Nightmareriage - When marriage becomes a nightmare, ...
They used to be happy together. Now they are happy but not together. They have their own families: new wife, new husband, and new kids, and they seem alright. Through the ups and downs, they can still be strong and in control of their lives. It's better to break up like them, though getting hurt for a while, than to prison yourself in the vicious circle with no way out. Marriage should be a choice rather than a responsibility; divorce should be a right rather than a sin. Why do people have to stay in marriage when they fail to match like two incompatible pieces of a puzzle? Why do they have to pretend to be happy when they are not? Everyone lives once. Why do we have to live to please others?
Celebrities often complain that they have no freedom: their private lives are disturbed; their secrets leak out. But in fact, famous people may have more freedom than ordinary people. They are free to date, to marry, to divorce, and cause scandals. Though their private lives often make headlines in newspapers, those people are already immune to gossips and rumors. They are free to set new trend, to rebel against the old values, and to do the unprecedented. It's fine for them to be a single parent, to divorce within 24 hour marriage, to date someone new, or to label someone their ex. On the contrary, ordinary people have to follow traditions. At certain age, they must get married. At certain age, they must have children. And once they step into marriage, there's no way they can step out. They are conditioned to take responsibility and follow unannounced rules. They are conditioned to sacrifice their lives to save their face. Knowing they're getting lost, getting stuck in the dead-end road, they make no attempt to reverse their steps.
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